Here’s a hard truth. Most estimates aren’t lost to a cheaper company. They’re lost to silence.
You give a great estimate. The homeowner says, “Let us think about it.” You never hear back. You figure they went with someone else.
Often, they didn’t. They got busy. They needed to talk to their spouse. They wanted to wait for a tax refund. They lost your card. And then the next company that called them, got the job.
Dan Kennedy teaches that most of the money in a business is made in the follow-up. The first contact gets attention. The follow-up gets the sale.
Why follow-up works
People rarely buy big things on the first visit. They need to:
- Talk it over with their family
- Compare a couple of quotes
- Figure out the money
- Feel sure you’re the right company
A good follow-up helps them do all of that. And it shows them something important: “This company follows through.” If you follow up on your estimate, they figure you’ll follow up on their job.
The follow-up plan
Use this plan after every estimate. Put the dates in your calendar or CRM the same day you give the price.
| Day | How | What |
|---|---|---|
| Day 0 | Email + text | Send the written estimate with photos |
| Day 1 | Text | Thank them and answer questions |
| Day 3 | Call | Check in, ask about concerns |
| Day 7 | Text | Send proof: a review or a similar job |
| Day 14 | Call or text | Give a reason to act now |
| Day 30 | Text | Last check before moving to monthly |
| Monthly | Text or email | Helpful tips, seasonal offers |
Word-for-word messages you can copy
Day 0 (same day as the estimate):
“Hi Sarah, thanks for having me out today. Here’s your estimate with the photos we took: [link]. I put three options in there. The middle one is what most families pick. Any questions, just text me. – Mike, ABC Roofing”
Day 1:
“Hi Sarah, just making sure the estimate came through OK. Any questions I can answer about the options?”
Day 3 (call):
“Hi Sarah, it’s Mike from ABC Roofing. I wanted to see if you’d had a chance to look over the estimate. Was there anything that didn’t make sense, or anything you’re worried about?”
Then listen. The real reason they haven’t decided usually comes out here.
Day 7 (proof):
“Hi Sarah, we just finished a roof two streets over from you that looked a lot like yours. Here’s the before and after: [photo]. Happy to answer anything else.”
Day 14 (a reason to act now):
“Hi Sarah, our supplier told us shingle prices go up on the 1st. If you want to lock in the price on your estimate, I can hold it through the end of the month. Want me to?”
Only use a deadline that’s real.
Day 30:
“Hi Sarah, I don’t want to bug you. Should I keep your estimate open, or did you go another way? Either answer is totally fine.”
This last one is powerful. People often reply, because it’s easy to answer. Many reply “Still interested, just waiting on X.” Now you know what to do.
Every message should add value
Never send “Just checking in.” It gives them nothing.
Every follow-up should give them something:
- A photo of a similar job
- A review from a neighbor
- A tip (“Here’s how to tell if your gutters are overflowing”)
- An answer to a question they asked
- A real reason to act (price change, schedule opening, season)
Seth Godin calls this permission marketing: sending messages people are glad to get because they’re useful, not pushy.
Handle the real reasons people wait
When you call on day 3, you’ll often hear the real reason. Here’s how to help:
- “It’s more than we expected.” Show the options again. Offer the good option, or financing if you have it. Ask, “What number were you hoping for?” Then see if a smaller scope fits.
- “We need to talk it over.” “Of course. What questions do you think your husband will have? I’m happy to hop on a quick call with both of you.”
- “We’re getting other quotes.” “Smart. When you compare, check that they include [the things you include]. Want me to send a quick checklist?”
- “We want to wait.” “Totally fair. What are you waiting for? If it’s spring, I can put you on the schedule now so you’re first in line.”
Nurture leads who aren’t ready yet
Not every lead is ready this month. Some are 6 months or a year out. These people are gold, because you met them before your competitors did.
Build a simple nurture list:
- Everyone who got an estimate and didn’t buy
- Everyone who called but didn’t book
- Everyone who entered a giveaway or took a free offer
Then stay in touch:
- Monthly: a short, useful email or text. Seasonal tips, a project photo, a review.
- Seasonally: an offer that fits the time of year.
- Yearly: a personal check-in. “Hi Tom, last fall you asked about a new furnace. How’s the old one holding up this winter?”
When they’re ready, you’ll be the first one they think of.
Automate it
When you’re busy, follow-up is the first thing that slips. That’s why the best companies automate it.
A good CRM can:
- Send the day 1, 7 and 30 texts on its own
- Remind you to make the day 3 and 14 calls
- Stop the messages when someone replies or books
- Put people who didn’t buy on a monthly nurture list
Automated doesn’t mean robotic. Write the messages in your own voice, and always answer replies yourself.
What follow-up is worth
Say you give 20 estimates a month and close 30%. That’s 6 jobs. If steady follow-up gets you to 35%, that’s 7 jobs. One more job a month at $2,500 is $30,000 a year, from estimates you already gave.
Run your own numbers in the estimate follow-up calculator.
Stay on the right side of the rules
- Texting someone back about their own request is expected.
- Sending marketing texts later needs their permission. Add a line to your estimate or form like: “I agree to get texts about my project and offers. Reply STOP to opt out.”
- Always honor STOP right away.
Your follow-up checklist
- Every estimate gets a follow-up plan the same day
- I follow up on day 1, 3, 7, 14 and 30
- Every message adds value
- I ask what’s really holding them back
- People who didn’t buy go on a monthly nurture list
- I use a CRM or a simple sheet so nobody gets forgotten
- I have permission for marketing texts and honor STOP
Follow-up isn’t pushy. It’s professional. And it’s the cheapest way to grow, because you already paid to get these leads.
